>>917591841is it the lack of real time engine for her? if I may make a suggestion, why not have her make a secret account on Reddit? im not going to expose anyone, but I've seen a few here who also have one on reddit. couples who just like sharing their girl/their own fun. they are in the nofans/gonewild subreddits and others. ngl, I know a they deal with a decent amount of just stupid messages in their inbox, but they also end up finding people that they like to chat with privately. a couple even mention that it's the husband who controls it in order to deter some guys. just an idea, man.